The Five of Wands indicates that there is a conflict between your idea of the ideal and your current circumstances. It might be time to withhold judgment to see if the person you're dating is the right one for you. Try to remind yourself that it's not possible to find someone who fits all of your ideals, so don't be too critical of your relationship. Also, this card suggests that you need to be able to recognize whether or not your expectations are realistic. It may be time to adapt to circumstances and act flexibly.
The Magician (The Magician) reversed indicates a tendency not to be satisfied with things as they are. This card also highlights the ability to make difficult and courageous decisions. This means that you will have to carefully evaluate your current situation before deciding if the person you are dating is the right one for you. Also, this card suggests that perhaps you need to spend more time reflecting on your romantic situation. At the same time, you must also learn to meet your standards realistically and without expecting too much from your partner.
In conclusion, it appears from tarot readings that the ideal and being content are two very important aspects to consider when it comes to deciding if a partner is the right one for you. The reading recommends not being too strict in setting your own standards and remembering that no one is going to be perfect. You need to be able to recognize what you can accept and be realistic in your expectations. When it comes time to make a decision, make sure you take the time to reflect on your relationship so you can make your decision as informed as possible.

