The reversed Nine of Wands indicates that you are currently thinking about something that you cannot concentrate on constructively. You may feel confused and lost in your family life, as if you don't know where you belong. You may also fear that you will not be able to achieve your goals.
The Moon indicates that you are currently feeling a strong desire for balance. You want to find your inner peace and serenity, but you may be afraid to face your inner difficulties. There may be a part of you that feels like you don't deserve to achieve stability in your family life.
The reversed Empress suggests that you are acting too impulsively. You may feel like you're not considering your long-term goals and instead are just reacting to the immediate circumstances in your life. Your actions may make you feel stuck and disoriented rather than help you achieve your goals.
From the three cards selected, it seems like you need to take some time to reflect on where you fit in your family life and what your deepest purpose is. You need to focus on recognizing your strengths, long-term goals and how you can concretely put them into practice. Once you have done this, then you will be able to take meaningful action in your family life to achieve your grander goals.