The Hermit is a card about taking your time and indulging in introspection. The card suggests looking within to understand what changes are needed to improve intimacy in your relationship. The general meaning of the card is to take a step back, take some alone time to reflect on what you really want from a relationship, and identify habits that get in the way of intimacy.
The Hanged Man reversed indicates that some things cannot be changed. The Hanged Man represents a moment of stalemate in which the limits of the relationship are often noticed. This card suggests that there are aspects to the relationship, such as personal differences or misunderstandings between partners, that are difficult to change. In some cases, you have to accept these parts as an integral part of the relationship and learn to live with them.
The reversed King of Wands indicates that you may not be aware of your deepest fears or inability to trust your partner. This card suggests that both partners must be willing to question themselves and be honest with themselves about their fears and the automatic attitudes they have within the relationship, such as jealousy or lack of trust.
In conclusion, the tarot suggests that to improve intimacy in your current relationship you must take the time to explore your deepest motivations and fears, accepting the parts of the relationship that cannot be changed and identifying the automatic attitudes that hinder the emotional closeness between you and your partner. A fundamental step in reaching a deeper level of intimacy will be to communicate honestly with your partner, sharing your most truthful feelings and emotions.