The Eight of Wands indicates that there has been good progress in your current relationship. There are components of your relationship that are working well, such as communication, trust, openness to each other's opinions, and a foundation of mutual support.
The Ten of Wands indicates that there are still some areas where work needs to be done. There may be situations where you have failed to be present enough or give your relationship your full commitment. Also, you may need to put more effort into building trust and strengthening the foundation of your relationship.
The reversed Three of Wands indicates that there may be something blocking you from making the necessary changes in your relationship. You may feel insecure about your decisions, or you may be afraid of taking responsibility for necessary changes.
The tarot reveals that there is a good balance between the areas that are working well in your relationship and those where changes need to be made. To do this, you must be ready to face your insecurity and accept responsibility for your relationship. Once you do this, you'll be able to work on those changes needed to build a strong and lasting relationship.