When we look at the Nine of Cups inside out, we can see that it represents an illusion or an unattainable wish, something that is beyond our reach. This may indicate that there are doubts about how to start a fulfilling relationship with someone similar to us. The card suggests that we may be concerned that we do not have the right skills or resources to create such a relationship.

In regards to the Six of Cups, this card represents the happiness and harmony that can be found in the relationship. It reminds us that we must embrace our vulnerability as we open up to someone similar to us with the hopes of finding a lasting and exciting connection. It also indicates that we can derive great joy from building fulfilling relationships if we are willing to open our hearts and share our souls with each other.

The Eight of Pentacles tells us that while there will be challenges ahead, we are ready and determined to work towards a meaningful goal. This card reminds us that we have all the means necessary to create a fulfilling relationship with someone very similar to us and that, if we can put our fears and doubts aside, we can truly explore our relationship potential.

In summary, your attitude towards the question must be based on optimism and confidence in your ability to manage a fulfilling relationship with someone similar to you. You have to be willing to open your heart to the people you meet and give it your all to make the relationship work. If you do this, your chances of achieving harmony and happiness in such a relationship will be much greater.