The first card is Nine of Swords reversed, symbolizing the feeling of confusion and uncertainty about the situation. You may feel that there is little clarity on how to deal with or handle the situation. Perhaps there is also a feeling of helplessness or inability to change anything.
The second card is Two of Cups, which represents love and compassion. There is a strong desire to help the family member but also a deep sense of concern for the family member's well-being. You might even be angry or frustrated with him/her, but at the same time there is an urgency to do something about the situation.
The last card is reversed Six of Pentacles, indicating that it may be difficult to balance the family member's needs with your own. Furthermore, it can be tempting to try to solve everything on your own, without asking anyone for help, or you can feel stuck because you don't know where to start.
In conclusion, it is important to acknowledge your own feelings and thoughts about a family member's food addiction. While you may have mixed feelings, seeking help and support from outsiders is crucial to managing the situation effectively. You should also consider all aspects of the situation before making any decisions, including the family member's needs and your own.