The first card we considered is The Lovers. This card represents a moment of important choice and connection between two people. In this case, it may suggest that the most important choice for you, compared to the question "What are my family's core values?" is to take the time to get to know each other and understand your family's priorities. Additionally, The Lovers emphasize the importance of being true to yourself and your heart above all else. Taking the time to figure out which core values are most important to you and your family can be an important step toward understanding each other.
The second card we looked at is the reversed Three of Wands. This card suggests that your family is not yet ready to face or discuss their values. This means that while you may need to talk about it, you may not be ready to do so yet. Furthermore, Three of Wands reversed highlights that there is a certain unease in dealing with awkward topics like this. You may need to take your time and find a softer way to approach the topic to create a more welcoming environment in which to discuss it openly.
The last card we looked at is the reverse Four of Wands. This card suggests that your family may have a conservative approach to the subject of core values. This means that while you may need to discuss it, it may be difficult to do so in the most open way possible. Furthermore, reversed Quattro di Bastoni signals the need to find a meeting point between the people involved before discussing the subject in depth. This may require time and patience but it is essential because only in this way can common ground be found on which to build a supportive and productive dialogue.
In conclusion, we can say that the tarot suggests that the best way to find out what your family's core values are is to take the time to get to know each other better and understand each other's priorities. The key is to find a common meeting point in order to create a more welcoming environment in which to discuss the topic openly. The final choice is still up to you, but you should remember that "listening" is key to achieving your goal.