The reversed Seven of Swords indicates that you are in a confusing situation, where your ideas may not be clear or may be contradictory. When the Seven of Swords is reversed, it also suggests that you may be too idealistic or unrealistic in your choices. You may have too high expectations or simply not consider all aspects involved in making important decisions.

The Four of Wands, on the other hand, represents a period of stagnation but also of transformation. It may mean that you are ready to settle for smaller things and are trying to do the best you can with the resources at your disposal. This can be helpful, as it can give you an opportunity to reflect on what is best for you and your family, and consider the best course forward.

In conclusion, the two tarot cards indicate that you should take a closer look at the situation at hand, pondering whether your decisions are realistic and keeping in mind what your real possibilities are. If you are willing to settle for less but do the best you can with the resources you have available, you are more likely to make your decisions successful. Hence, the advice is to consider all aspects involved before deciding on anything and remember that your choices should be based on reality rather than the ideal.