The first card, the reversed Three of Swords, indicates that the opportunities that exist in the communication problem with your children may be difficult to identify. It's possible that there's something hidden, like an old emotional wound, that's blocking communication between her and her children. The key here is to pinpoint what's causing the communication obstacle, so you can address it and overcome it.
Judgment shows that the challenges that will arise will be to understand how to approach the problem with the greatest awareness possible. You may need to put yourself in her children's shoes to better understand what is not working in their relationship. This may take time and patience, but will ultimately help restore a healthier and more harmonious relationship.
Finally, the King of Wands card indicates that the results are promising if you engage in this work. If he can deal with the problem with awareness and compassion towards himself and his children, this problem can be solved. The important thing is to find the right balance between conflicts and mutual understanding. It will take time to build trust between her and her children, but eventually she will see significant improvements in their relationship.
In conclusion, the tarot indicates that if you approach the problem in a conscious and compassionate way, you will be able to improve the situation with your children. She will need to take the time to understand what is happening, put herself in her children's shoes, and express her concerns lovingly. At the end of the day, by working together with your partner and children, you can create an environment where everyone can have an open conversation and fearlessly express their feelings.