Nine of Pentacles may indicate that you can change your current situation in order to achieve a fulfilling relationship with your children. This card suggests that you have the opportunity to make changes in your life, such as spending more time with them or being more present to support them. The card also offers an opportunity to change your attitude towards your children, adopting a more understanding and loving approach.
The King of Wands reversed could mean that you can't change the attitude of others in your relationship with your children. While you can improve your participation and involvement in the relationship, you cannot force others to adopt the same attitude. You may also find yourself in a situation where you can't control external circumstances, such as decisions your children or partner make about having children.
Five of Pentacles suggests that you may not be aware of the difficulties your children face during their teenage years or the impact these difficulties have on your relationship with them. There may be hidden emotions or fears behind their actions or behaviors and you may not be aware of their intensity.
In conclusion, the tarot reading indicates that you have the possibility to make positive changes in your relationship with your children, but you must also consider that it is not possible to control all external circumstances and you may not even be aware of all aspects of the relationship. with your children. To answer your question, the odds of having a fulfilling relationship with your children depend on how you handle the situation and how much you are willing to commit to that relationship. You should therefore take some time to reflect on your priorities and how you want to handle the situation, so as to strike a balance between the different parties involved in the relationship.