How can I overcome the fear of committing to a serious relationship?

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The question is answered by Lucas with a spread of 3 Tarot whose meaning is: What I Think, What I Feel, What I Do.

The tarot cards drawn are: Ace of Cups reversed, Five of Wands reversed, Queen of Swords.

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The reversed Ace of Cups indicates that you are thinking there is no reason to commit to a serious relationship. You may also lack confidence in your ability to sustain a long-lasting relationship, or you may feel blocked by fears you have about how things might turn out. These fears can be related to the past or to expectations you have about what a relationship should be like. The card invites you to reflect on these beliefs and to examine if they are still useful or if it is time to abandon them.

The reversed Five of Wands indicates that while you still have feelings of wanting and needing love, you are resisting the idea of ​​committing to a serious relationship. You may feel anxiety and fear about opening up to others, but also confusion about what to do. This card invites you to take your fears seriously, but without letting them control your life. Learning about your emotions and recognizing your needs is a first step towards accepting and overcoming the fears you have about committing to a serious relationship.

The Queen of Swords indicates that you are implementing defensive strategies to avoid compromising yourself too much, such as limiting conversations, maintaining some emotional detachment, or blocking any too deep exploration of your fears. This card invites you to become aware of your defensive strategies and to be honest with yourself about your real intentions. You must learn to know your fears and face them, only then you can overcome them and finally commit to a serious relationship.

To overcome the fear of committing to a serious relationship you must first become aware of your fears and your feelings, accepting them and examining them without judging them. You must then identify the defensive strategies you implement to avoid confronting these emotions, and finally you must learn to face them without being afraid of them. Only in this way will you finally be able to open up to others and commit to a serious relationship.

 

 

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