The reversed Eight of Cups speaks of a stagnant and confusing love situation. You may be dissatisfied with your current romantic relationship and there may be a sense of inadequacy in the way you see things. You may be stuck in a vicious circle and unable to find solutions to your problems. However, this card also carries a positive message: face the situation with optimism and don't give up. Open your heart and allow yourself to make an informed decision that leads to personal growth. The Sun represents a time of happiness and serenity in your love life. This card highlights the power that love has to brighten your life. It opens your mind to new perspectives and is an invitation to be more creative in matters that concern the heart. It also means that you need to be more confident in your ideas and choices, because only then can you experience the joys of love. The Four of Wands refers to the importance of building a solid foundation for your love relationships. It also symbolizes the need to create balance and harmony in the couple, so as to allow both partners to feel appreciated and welcomed. This card also suggests that you must be willing to put your personal concerns aside so you can focus on growing the relationship overall.

The reversed Eight of Cups indicates that you may not be ready enough to deal with the problems you have in your love life and hesitate to make important decisions. You may also not be confident enough in your ability to handle difficult situations and thus get stuck in a vicious circle. You also need to remember that love always comes with risks, and you need to be ready to accept them if you want to have a truly meaningful experience. The Sun can indicate that you are neglecting something in your love life, such as communication or intimacy with your partner. If you are trying to avoid the truth or if you are pretending that everything is perfect, then you will never achieve positive results and end up getting stuck in a vicious circle. Also, this card can indicate that you are neglecting your emotional and spiritual well-being, so you need to make sure you are taking care of yourself before you can take care of others. The Four of Wands can mean that you are neglecting some fundamental aspects of the relationship such as the balance between committing to something together and having your own personal space. If you don't learn to adapt to circumstances, it will be difficult for you to create lasting relationships that are built on love and mutual trust. Additionally, you should also remember that you can't always have everything you want in life and it's important to learn to make concessions when necessary.

From the cards you can understand that there is a mismatch between what you feel inside you and what you do in your love life: they have to strike the balance to get good results. The first step will be to look inside yourself and find out what your true desire is: follow it but do it responsibly. Learn to listen to yourself, to be more assertive in discussions with your partner and express your feelings without fearing the judgment of others. Remember that love is much deeper than words: show it with gestures, with concrete actions, with the smallest everyday details. Take care of your emotional and energetic well-being: dedicate time to intimacy with yourself, take time to do things you really enjoy and expand by experimenting with new relationship models beyond those classically defined as "couple" or "family"; learn to be okay alone before looking for a romantic/romantic companion/companion! Take care of your love life as if it were a garden to cultivate: spend time listening to each other and share each other's passions and interests; go out often together and trust each other; Finally, always remember to focus on the present and on what shines in your life!

In conclusion, the importance of the balance between taking care of it and expanding each other in one's love relationship clearly emerges from the cards. You must learn to listen to yourself and express your feelings and needs without fear of depending on the judgment of others; you must take care of your own emotional and energetic well-being; you must discover new relationship models and learn to be alone; furthermore you must extend the question of the couple and always see yourself as a whole to share joys and passions and to build lasting ones based on trust and love! The answer to the question is therefore clear: you will have to consciously make decisions that lead to personal growth and you will have to make a commitment to build lasting relationships based on trust and love!