Am I better focused on finding a serious relationship or should I enjoy the fling?
Two very clear indications emerge from the cards: focus on finding a serious relationship and enjoy the adventure. Taking that information into account, the answer to the question is: Serious. Even if the adventure is worth enjoying, the Ten of Wands card highlights the fact that in order to establish a lasting relationship, it is necessary to invest time and energy and build a solid foundation on which to base it.