My roommate Paolo is having problems with his girlfriend, should I intervene?
In conclusion, the cards suggest that Paul can certainly help his girlfriend in dealing with the current situation, but he should also let her make progress on her own. They should take time to reflect on how to overcome problems and apply what they have learned in the past. So, the answer to the question is: Yes, you should intervene, but in the most constructive way possible by offering yourself support without intruding too much into the situation.