The question is answered by Lucas with a spread of 3 Tarot whose meaning is: What I Think, What I Feel, What I Do.
The tarot cards drawn are: Ace of Swords, Judgement, Eight of Cups reversed.
In conclusion, the cards suggest that you need to take precautions regarding your love life. The mind is focused on the importance of considering all aspects of the relationship, but there is also a tendency to ignore those responsibilities and risks. You should therefore try to make well-informed decisions about your love life so as to avoid future problems.
In conclusion, the cards suggest that Barbara will be able to overcome current difficulties and achieve good professional success if she remains motivated and invested in herself. She should try to maintain work-life balance, training her creativity and acquiring new skills, so that she is ready to face any opportunity that presents itself.
Bottom line, the cards suggest that you can try to accept the possibility of finding the love of your life at age 50, but also that you should be prepared to reject the pressure to look for it in a forced or uncomfortable way. Consequently, one could say that the answer to your question is No: you don't necessarily have to find love at age 50, but you can always decide when it's right to do it for yourself.
In conclusion, the tarot suggests that there are hidden opportunities in your work, but you may encounter some resistance before you arrive at your goals. In the end you will get great personal satisfaction and tangible results for all your efforts. To achieve this end result, you must be ready to face challenges and act with intelligence and flexibility.
From the three cards selected, it seems like you need to take some time to reflect on where you fit in your family life and what your deepest purpose is. You need to focus on recognizing your strengths, long-term goals and how you can concretely put them into practice. Once you have done this, then you will be able to take meaningful action in your family life to achieve your grander goals.
Bottom line, the cards suggest that you have every chance of meeting someone special soon. However, it is important to maintain some balance between your ideal and reality. You must be ready to accept any kind of relationship without expecting too much. You don't have to seek perfection but rather be ready to accept even less than perfect relationships and appreciate them anyway.
In conclusion, the tarot reading suggests that in order to overcome an unrequited crush, one must face the vulnerability and fear we feel. We should look beyond our current circumstances and focus on how this conflict could affect our future in a positive way. We might also consider seeking support from others so that we have people close to us to share our feelings with and find new ways to overcome the challenges presented by the current situation.