The Eight of Wands represents the asker of the question. The card indicates that the applicant is in an ambiguous situation, with his will blocked by something. You may need to take some time to reflect and rearrange your ideas so you better understand how to deal with the situation. The advice is to explore your deepest emotions and express your feelings openly, without fear of making wrong decisions.
The Queen of Cups suggests that the applicant is facing a strong and determined opponent. It could be a person or situation that doesn't offer much chance of success. In this case you need to arm yourself with patience and perseverance and commit yourself to having good relations with this adversary. You should also avoid acting impulsively or making hasty decisions. The Queen of Cups symbolizes love and compassion, so it's important to maintain a respectful attitude towards your opponent.
From the tarot it seems that to find the love of your life it is important to take time to reflect on what you really want, express your emotions openly and persevere in facing the obstacles that you encounter along the way. We must also maintain an attitude of respect towards the adversary, always remembering that compassion can open doors that seemed closed.