Come posso superare la paura di impegnarmi in una relazione seria?

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The question is answered by Lucas with a spread of 3 Tarot whose meaning is: What I Think, What I Feel, What I Do.

The tarot cards drawn are: Ace of Cups reversed, Five of Wands reversed, Queen of Swords.

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L'asso di Coppe al rovescio indica che tu stai pensando che non ci sia nessuna ragione per impegnarsi in una relazione seria. Puoi anche non avere fiducia nella tua capacità di sostenere una relazione duratura o potresti sentirti bloccato dalle paure che hai su come si possa evolvere la situazione. Queste paure possono essere legate al passato o alle aspettative che hai su come dovrebbe essere una relazione. La carta ti invita a riflettere su queste convinzioni e ad esaminare se sono ancora utili o se è il momento di abbandonarle.

Il cinque di Bastoni al rovescio indica che pur provando sentimenti di desiderio e bisogno di amore, stai resistendo all'idea di impegnarti in una relazione seria. Potresti sentire ansia e paura nell'aprirti agli altri, ma anche confusione su cosa fare. Questa carta ti invita a prendere le tue paure sul serio, ma senza lasciare che controllino la tua vita. Imparare a conoscere le tue emozioni e riconoscere i tuoi bisogni è un primo passo verso l'accettazione ed il superamento delle paure che hai sull'impegno in una relazione seria.

La Regina di Spade indica che stai mettendo in atto strategie difensive per evitare di comprometterti troppo, come ad esempio limitare le conversazioni, mantenere un certo distacco emotivo o bloccare qualsiasi esplorazione troppo profonda delle tue paure. Questa carta ti invita a prendere consapevolezza delle tue strategie difensive e ad essere onesto con te stesso sulle tue reali intenzioni. Devi imparare a conoscere le tue paure e ad affrontarle, solo così potrai superarle e finalmente impegnarti in una relazione seria.

Per superare la paura di impegnarsi in una relazione seria tu devi prima prendere consapevolezza delle tue paure e dei tuoi sentimenti, accettandoli ed esaminandoli senza giudicarli. Devi poi identificare le strategie difensive che metti in atto per evitare di confrontarti con queste emozioni, ed infine devi imparare ad affrontarle senza averne paura. Solo così potrai finalmente aprirti agli altri e impegnarti in una relazione seria.

 

 

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