The Page of Wands indicates a block in your relationship with Barbara. This block is due to a lack of communication or humility on both sides. It is a block that can be overcome if we try to listen to each other's voice and to speak more openly and sincerely. Blocking can also be caused by too high expectations, both on your part and on Barbara's part.
The reversed Three of Cups indicates that there is a solution to the blockage: you need to learn to accept and understand the differences between you and Barbara, also taking her opinions into consideration. The solution lies in learning to listen to the other, respecting differing opinions and avoiding sterile and endless discussions. By accepting diversity, you will be able to achieve a balance between the two worlds, yours and Barbara's, and be able to create a deeper and more harmonious relationship.
In conclusion, to resolve the blockage in the relationship with Barbara, one must learn to listen to the other, respect different opinions and avoid useless discussions. If you can do this, your relationships can go back to being as harmonious and deep as before.